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🏡 If I Were Moving to New Jersey, I’d Move HERE

April 3, 2026 by Melissa DeSantis Leave a Comment

If I was moving to Monmouth County today, I wouldn’t start by looking at homes.

And I definitely wouldn’t start by looking at a map.

I would start with one question:

👉 What do I want my everyday life to actually feel like?

Because here’s what most people get wrong…

You can buy a beautiful house in the wrong town—and end up completely unhappy with your day-to-day life.

I wouldn’t just pick a town randomly because here’s the truth most people don’t realize:

👉 Not all towns in New Jersey offer the same lifestyle
👉 Not all areas hold value the same way
👉 And the “best” place completely depends on how you want to live day-to-day

As a local real estate expert in Monmouth County, I’ve helped hundreds of buyers relocate—and I can tell you this:

Where you choose to live will shape your entire experience in New Jersey.

So in this guide, I’m breaking down exactly where I would move—and why.


🎥 Watch the Full Video Here


🌊 If You Want the Beach Lifestyle…

If your vision of New Jersey includes:

  • Morning walks by the water
  • Summer beach days
  • Coastal restaurants and nightlife

Then your focus should be on towns along the Jersey Shore.

Areas like:

  • Long Branch
  • Asbury Park
  • Belmar

These towns offer a completely different lifestyle compared to inland suburbs.

What to expect:

  • Higher price points near the water
  • Strong demand (especially for updated homes)
  • A more lifestyle-driven buyer pool

👉 If beach access is your priority, this is where you’ll feel it every day.

🌊 If I Wanted Beach + Lifestyle, I’d Choose Long Branch

Another town I would absolutely consider is Long Branch.

Because it gives you a similar lifestyle feel to Red Bank—but now you’re by the beach.

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And what I love about Long Branch is how much it has evolved.

  • It’s built up
  • It’s vibrant
  • It feels alive

You have places like Pier Village where you can:

  • Walk to restaurants
  • Grab coffee
  • Go to the beach
  • Meet friends
  • Walk to the gym

👉 It gives you that everyday lifestyle, not just a weekend escape.


⚠️ The Mistake Buyers Make with Beach Towns

This is where I see people go wrong all the time.

They fall in love with the idea of the beach in the summer…

But they don’t think about:

  • January
  • February
  • March

Some shore towns feel completely different in the off-season.

But Long Branch?

👉 It still has life.

It’s not just a summer destination—it’s a place you can truly live year-round.


📍 Why Location Within Monmouth County Matters

Another reason I like Long Branch?

You’re not isolated.

You’re close to:

  • Red Bank
  • Asbury Park
  • Eatontown

So you get the beach lifestyle without sacrificing convenience or accessibility.

🌆 If I Wanted Walkability & Energy, I’d Choose Red Bank

If I was moving here right now, one of the first places I would seriously consider is Red Bank.

And the reason has nothing to do with the houses.

It’s the lifestyle.

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I love the idea of being able to walk out my front door and actually live my life without getting in my car.

  • Grab coffee in the morning
  • Walk to dinner
  • Meet friends
  • Go to events

There’s an energy here that you just don’t get in a lot of other towns in Monmouth County.

👉 And it’s not seasonal—it’s active all year round.


🧭 So… Where Would I Choose?

If I was moving to Monmouth County today and I wanted:

✔️ Walkability
✔️ Restaurants
✔️ Energy
✔️ A lifestyle outside my home

I would be strongly considering:

👉 Red Bank
👉 Long Branch

Because at the end of the day…

It’s not about the house first.

It’s about how you want your life to feel when you wake up every morning.


🏫 If Schools Are Your Top Priority…

For many buyers relocating to New Jersey, schools are the #1 driver.

And in that case, I would focus on towns known for strong school systems and community structure, like:

  • Marlboro
  • Manalapan
  • Holmdel

These areas are known for:

  • Consistently high-performing schools
  • Family-oriented neighborhoods
  • Strong resale value over time

👉 This is where buyers tend to prioritize long-term stability and investment.


🌳 If You Want Space, Value & More House for Your Money…

Not everyone needs the beach or top-tier school districts.

If your priority is:

  • Larger homes
  • Bigger lots
  • More value for your budget

Then I would look at inland towns like:

  • Howell
  • Freehold Township

These areas often offer:

  • More square footage
  • Lower price per square foot
  • Quieter, suburban feel

👉 This is where buyers can really stretch their budget.


📍 The Truth About Choosing the “Best” Town

Here’s the mistake I see buyers make all the time:

They ask,
“What’s the best town?”

But that’s the wrong question.

The better question is:

👉 “What do I want my life to look like when I move?”

Because:

  • A beach town might feel too busy for some
  • A top school district might come with higher taxes
  • A value-driven town might not have the same “name recognition”

And none of those are wrong—they’re just different.


📊 The Market Right Now

In today’s Monmouth County market:

  • Homes under ~$850K that are move-in ready → extremely competitive
  • Luxury homes ($1.5M+) → longer days on market
  • Buyers are prioritizing:
    • Beach lifestyle
    • OR strong school systems

If your home doesn’t clearly offer one of those, it can take longer to sell.

👉 Which is exactly why choosing the right town matters so much.


🧭 So… Where Would I Move?

If I were moving to New Jersey today, I would choose based on:

✔️ My lifestyle
✔️ My long-term goals
✔️ My daily routine

Because the “right” town isn’t about popularity…

It’s about alignment.


đź’¬ Final Thoughts

New Jersey has incredible options—but they are not one-size-fits-all.

The key is understanding:

  • What each town actually offers
  • What matters most to you
  • And how to position yourself in this market

Because when you get that right…

👉 Everything else becomes easier.


đź“© Thinking About Moving to New Jersey?

If you’re considering a move and want help narrowing down the best area for your lifestyle…

Let’s map it out together.

No pressure—just clarity.

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